The Dating Explorer

Finding conversation starters on a new date can be troublesome. You don’t want there to be a lag in the conversation. This continues to be important even after the first date. It’s a good idea to have some interesting topics in case the conversation starts to dwindle.
Music and Movies
These are always safe topics, but they can get boring pretty fast. To keep it interesting, refrain from the standard ‘what’s your favorite’ question. Instead, focus on specific aspects. Talk about your favorite feel good movies, the best guilty pleasure films you enjoy, and even the indie films that spoke to you. The same goes for music. Talk about different qualities you enjoy, swap your favorite songs with cow bells, etc. Keep it light and fun and you won’t have any problems.
Light Hearted Memories
Don’t get too deep with this, but you can share stories about favorite times from years past. Talk about your favorite winter sweater, and why it is. Funny family stories that you don’t thing will offend, and other things from the past that can be interesting. Avoid talking about anything emotional or potentially offensive.
Hobbies
Do you have hobbies that some may find unique? Play an instrument like the didgeridoo? These are great conversation ideas for dates. They reveal a little something about you, show some of your endearing quirks, and open the door for more conversation later on. Talk about any clubs or sports you are involved in, crafts you create, or movements you helped form. Just try to steer clear of religious or political discussions because these can lead to awkward moments and disagreements.

When it comes to dating it always helps if you have a few funny questions that you can ask your date. You will find that this can really help to break up the boring job interview like questions that you will usually find yourself asking and answering. Having fun with the date is a great way to make sure that you get to go on another one.

Quirks

Ask your date if they have any odd quirks about themselves that could be considered fun or interesting. You will find that this is a great way for you to be able to get to know your date on a whole new level, try pushing the boundaries, ask if they have any erotic fantasies you could be surprised by the answers. It will also be a lot of fun to learn the interesting quirks about your date and you can share your own.

Jokes about Dating

It can be a lot of fun for you to be able to break the ice by simply joking about how awkward and difficult dating can be. Your date will really be able to appreciate the way that you see it and will feel more like you on their side. When you go into a date you will usually end up feeling nervous, chances are your date feels the same and joking about it can help.

Pet Peeves

Ask your date what their pet peeves are so that you can at least always make sure not to do them. You can learn a lot from a person by what their pet peeves are. You may even find that you share the same pet peeves.

There are a lot of flirting questions that you can ask a girl to get her attention. You will find that a lot of the time you will not know how to let a girl know that you are interested in her. Asking her questions that could be flirtatious or could easily turn into flirting can be a great way for you to show her your interest while getting to know her.

Perfume

You will find that letting a girl know that you like how she smells is a great flirtatious comment. Ask her what perfume she is wearing. While you will more than likely have no idea what the perfume is that she responds with, it will show that you acknowledged that she smells good and has shown an interest in it.

Interests

Ask her what she likes to do, what her interests are. It can be here that you can partake in some flirtatious teasing whenever she begins to answer the questions, be risky and ask her if she’s ever been swinging. Just make sure that you don’t go too far and that you don’t lay it on too thick as this can end up annoying or offending her.

Career

Asking a girl what she does for work is a great way for her to take charge of the conversation. Ask her if she likes what she does and what all she does there. You will find that whenever you let her talk about things she knows about while showing a genuine interest can be very sexy. Just don’t get where you’re only asking questions, talk a little yourself as well.